Saturday, May 19, 2018

Proverbs 3:5 (5/18/18)

Dear family and friends,

I haven´t felt much like writing, first because there wasn´t much to report on and then with Ellie, my mind has been somewhere else.  (Ellie suffered cardiac arrest during open heart surgery, May 8th)  We have suffered some heart wrenching low times, but also some incredible highs through all of this.  We have a firm testimony that all will be okay, even though we don´t know what "okay" looks like... I continue to be reminded of my favorite scripture, Proverbs 3:5, where we are told to "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and lean not unto thine own understanding" and you know what, I do...  Even though my heart aches as I wait.

We continue to be super busy getting things ready for our 2 upcoming seminars.  Shopping a ton for supplies, printing of manuals, arranging air and ground transportation, finding polo shirts and getting them embroidered, etc.  Papa will continue to cover our responsibilities here, as I will be flying to Oregon on Saturday to help out Shannon and Kevin.  My plan is to stay 2 weeks, unless needed longer.

We love you family!  Time is flying...kind of!  We will be home in 8 months now.  Thank you for bonding together in prayer and fasting for our Ellie.  You are all amazing... We love you so much!

Love,
Papa and Gma

Papa´s comments:

Even though your mom (and friend) added "Papa" (my favorite title) to her heart-felt letter, the words were all hers.  The love, emotions and testimony, however, are deeply shared.

I imagine we´ve all contemplated at some point in time how difficult it was for our Father-in-Heaven to witness His Son´s suffering during the atonement.  Marilyn and I experience a glimse of that anguish being so far away from our eldest daughter and son-in-law during this difficult time.

One insight that I had not understood until now, is how difficult the atonement must have also been for Christ´s grandfather.

D&C 90:24 is my "go-to" scripture for dealing with bumps along the highway-to-heaven.  The five action steps in this verse (search; pray; believe; obey; serve) provide a time-proven process to transform sorrow to increased testimony, peace, love, light and joy.

I´m grateful to know that we are spiritual beings having a temporary mortal experience, rather than just mortal beings having an occasional spiritual experience.

Thank heaven (literally) that we are organized into families in this life and throughout the eternities.

Love,
Dad, Papa & FIL

Tuesday, May 1, 2018

Thoughts From Papa: The Book of Mormon and Brazil (4/30/18 and 5/2/18)

BRAZIL: BOOK OF MORMON HERITAGE? 
April 30, 2018

As Humanitarian Services Missionaries in Brazil, my wife and I are amazed at the high percentage of Brazilians having indigenous DNA. We marvel at how many cities throughout the country have indigenous names. What intrigues us most are Phoenician hieroglyphs and archeological findings in Rio de Janeiro and throughout the Northeastern region of Brazil. 

From our perspective, there are many "remnants of the House of Israel" in Brazil. Based on Book of Mormon promises made to these "remnants," the future is bright for this enormous country and its marvelous people! 

The Book of Mormon documents Lehi’s departure from Jerusalem in 600 BC and journey to the "Promised Land." The oceanic portion of the adventure originated somewhere on along the northern coast of the Red Sea. There is no mention in the Book of Mormon of the route taken by the Jaredites (in 2,200 BC), or Mulekites (587 BC) in their respective voyages to the American continent. 

According to historical records, Pedro Alvarez Cabral accidently discovered the Northeastern coast of Brazil in 1500 AD (close to what is currently Porto Seguro, Bahia). According to Cabral’s account, a rogue wind blew him off course as he followed the common Portuguese trade route down the west coast of Africa. If unexpected trade winds brought Cabral to Bahia, it seems plausible that the Mulekites and Jaredites could have arrived on the east coast of South America in a similar manner.

Another known fact is that Phoenicia was an ancient civilization composed of independent city-states, which lay along the coast of the Mediterranean Sea stretching through what is now Syria, Lebanon, and northern Israel. 

If I lived in Babylonia at the time of the tower of Babel (which, according to the Book of Mormon, was the home and era of the Jaredites), or if I was Mulek looking to flee Jerusalem at the time of King Zedekiah (Mulek ́s father), the Mediterranean Sea would have been a logical choice. Besides, my wife would have vetoed both the Arabian Desert and Red Sea. 

Forgetting the massive logistics for a moment, I would have purchased boats from the local Phoenician shipyard (or built them, as did their Jaredite predecessors). Once aboard, I would lather up with sunscreen, put on my shades and sail due west until the Rock of Gibraltar. Then, it is just a matter of tacking southwest along the coast of Africa. If an errant trade wind kicked in, the rest would be history.... just as it was for Pedro Alvarez Cabral in 1500 BC, and perhaps for the Jaredites, Mulekites, and perhaps others, that preceded Admiral Cabral. 

The Atlantic route sure seems a lot more appealing than hiking all the way to the Red Sea, as Lehi did, and then using local resources to build a ship! Lehi’s options may have been limited due to the circumstances under which he departed Jerusalem. This was especially the case after his boys’ run- in with Laban to bring home the Brass Plates. No matter the origin of the navigators, dates of their journeys, routes travelled and logistical challenges, the discovery and population of the Americas was definitely an amazing adventure!

REFLECTIONS ON THE PEDRA DA GÁVEA
May 2, 2018

As a young missionary in the Brazil North Mission in 1969, I read an article in the Liahona about the Pedra da Gávea. (See March 1964 issue of the Liahona magazine) I was fascinated that such a prominent archeological site, with possible Book of Mormon significance, was so close to Rio de Janeiro (where I was serving at the time).

I was able to visit the Pedra da Gávea twice during my mission. As I gazed upward at the stoic rock face peering into the distance, I remember wondering: “Who” were the Phoenician people that carved the hieroglyphs into the massive granite stone? “Why” did they do it? “How” did they do it? Was it perhaps an ancient monument to some great warrior, political leader or prophet? Were the two eye-socket caves perhaps burial sites? What secrets were hidden in the dense rain forest surrounding the towering monolith?

The mystery of the hieroglyphs took on took new significance after we met a large, humble construction worker (Antonio de Andrade) in the town of Sao Gonçalo, across Guanabarra Bay from Rio. Antonio had recently moved from Campinas Grande, in the Northeastern State of Paraiba with his family of seven to find employment.

In our second discussion, Antonio was drawn to the Book of Mormon. He explained that, as a child in Paraiba, he played in caves with hieroglyphs on the walls. Since he had indigenous ancestry on both sides of his family tree, he read the Book of Mormon with keen interest.

Antonio refused to accept a baptismal date or allow his family to sit in on the missionary discussions until he was sure the Church was true. One Sunday, while seated in Sacrament meeting at the Niteroi Branch, the Branch President (Brother Brito) announced that there would be a baptism the following Sunday after Church.

While President Brito continued the meeting, Antonio leaned over to my left ear and asked, “how much advance notice do I need to give you to be baptized?” I whispered back that it usually took at least a week to complete the necessary interviews and paper work. To my joy and surprise, he responded, “I would like to be baptized next week after Church.” And so, he was.

The Book of Mormon answered Brother Andrade´s childhood questions about the source of the hieroglyphs in Paraiba and the Holy Ghost answered his prayers regarding the truthfulness of the restored gospel.

Brother Andrade, his wife (Teresina) and their five children joined the Church and were sealed together in the São Paulo Temple. At the time of his death, Brother Andrade was serving as Patriarch of the Paraiba Campinas Grande Stake.

If the Holy Ghost bore witness to Brother Andrade that the hieroglyphs of his youth were explained by the Book of Mormon, perhaps my fascination with the Pedra da Gávea and the Phoenician heritage of Brazil originates from the same source.

Bday Letter from Grandma (4/28/18)

It´s been birthday week here! And yes, I am the newest “Area 70”!! I can´t believe I turned 70.. that is so old! I´m sharing what my sweet grandkids sent me on my big day!! Made my day and caused me to cry, too!! I love you, family!

Papa did a great job taking care of me. I had a delicious breakfast in bed. Omelet, chocolate croissant, and pão de queijo, yum!! At the office, he had decorated my desk area and planned a time to celebrate (with cake!) with all the senior missionaries. After work, we went to the temple. Decided to do initiatories, so we would have time to go to a restaurant for dinner. I got right in and was done quickly and then waited for close to 2 hours for Papa. Took him that long to get done with 5 names because the Temple workers had other assignments that they got called away to do. So, we went home and Papa went out and picked up Japanese takeout! It was a long, full, wonderful day!

I guess my birthday was too much for me - I ended up with a bad cold/flu, so I took it easy for a few days. It was good to stay home too, to recover from turning 70!!

Great things continue to happen in Brazil.... especially with the delivery of our first blankets and crocheted hats given to refugees coming into Pacaraima, Brazil from Venezuela. Beautiful people with struggles we can´t even imagine. Bell Canyon Ward sent many crocheted hats and blankets. Senior Sister Missionaries here crocheted many more and then crocheted borders on all the blankets that were sent. Feels good to have found the perfect people to give them to.

We are preparing now for two WHO (World Health Organization) trainings in June. PT´s and OT´s will be trained on how to properly fit wheelchairs. One of these trainings will be to train 12 people from different parts of Brazil to be trainers themselves. This has never happened before and we are so excited! (2 Trainers are coming from the States for this.)

I finally got all the Boa Vista receipts accounted for and submitted! Julio and I have decided if we get audited, we will blame it on me, since Julio can be fired and I can´t!

The fun continues!!!

Love Papa and Grandma

“Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving!” – Albert Einstein
Birthday decorations!

My wonderful grandkids and their message!

Venezuelan refugees. This little one received the first hat and blanket!

First joint Elder's quorum in Morumbi Ward (following Pres. Nelson's announcement in Conference)




Tuesday, April 17, 2018

8.3 and Counting... (4/16/18)

Well, we are officially done with 8 months and 9 days of our mission... but who is counting!! I like to think of it as 9 months and it feels better!

Today I discovered some exciting news... ready??  Papa and I are related (besides being married)!! We are 11th cousins, once removed, through our dads. He, he, he! I love it.  I downloaded the app, Family Tree and if someone near you has the app too, it will tell you how you are related!  Fun!

I also discovered something exciting this week... You all know that I have been intrigued (obsessed really) with my Grandmother´s second husband, Albert Phillip Jenkins.  Well, in doing some research this week, I was reading memories that were entered in Family Search on his line.  From there I got an email address of someone willing to share information about that line, so I wrote her.  I had an email by the next day!  We have had some fun exchanges, but little new information... BUT, I was invited to the Jenkins Family Reunion this summer in Logan.  Lots of people are supposed to be there, so if anyone is interested in attending and looking for information, let me know!

Since I wrote last time, we made another trip back to Riberão Pires to visit their Garden Project this time.  Elder and Sister Barrett went with us.  They are Mental Health Missionaries here.  APRAESPI asked if they would come and talk to their psychologists.  They were interested in knowing how the USA addresses some of the issues they have here.  After shopping for the project, taking a tour to see the progress and eating lunch, we met with the team from the school.  There were 10 of us.  We met for about 2 hours and discussed issues that the 2 countries have in common.  It was very interesting.  I was able to share information from my years of teaching, too.  Brought back a lot of memories!  People seem to be the same everywhere, with the same kinds of problems!

Sister Dow (Wheelchair Specialist, that we work with from the States) and I have been planning to give our friends at APRAESPI a special gift.  Sister Dow went home and made 6 aprons, bought 6 bags of chocolate chips and 6 gift bags.  They brought them to me on their last trip here, a couple of weeks ago.  I added 2 crocheted pot holders, a recipe to make chocolate chip cookies, and a little bag of the finished cookies to each bag.  I was able to deliver 5 out of the 6 bags, and they loved them!  They have done so many nice things for us, that it felt great to do something special for them.

Papa continues to work on the Wheelchair Projects...among other things....., still "pushing the string up the hill"!!  Papa and I have also been asked to teaching the Marriage and Family Relationship class at church.  Sunday was our first week.  Actually, Papa does all the work and preparation, since it is in Portuguese, but I was able to participate just enough!

I´ve spent a lot of time on the finances for our missionaries at the border with the "Venezuelano" refugees.  Trying to reconcile $10,000 dollars worth of cash receipts.... Everyday is a new adventure!!

We are loving life and are grateful to be able to serve with these wonderful peopled!!  

Love to each and every one of you! 

Papa and Gma  

"The direction in which we are moving is more important than where we are at the moment!" - Marvin J. Ashton

5 minute rain storm in São Paulo!  We ducked into a restaurant and the water was gone by the time we were done!

APRAESPI's new garden project... they have two goats at the far end to keep the grass "mowed"!

New shed built by APRAESPI (with their own funds) for the project

Meeting of psychologists... and us!

Friday, April 13, 2018

Papa Made It Into the Paper! (4/13/18)

Pickleball Adopted as Sport in APRAESPI Curriculum

Translation:

Apraespi (Ribeirão Pires Association for the Prevention, Specialized Care and Inclusion of Persons with Disabilities) presented another innovation in its service with the implementation of pickleball - a sport similar to tennis - in the list of therapeutic methods and in the School Physical Education classes specialized. The sport was created in the United States and brought to Ribeirão Pires last year by members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, partners of the association in social projects.

It all started when missionary Ray Anderson (the church's social project leader in the area) was at Apraespi coordinating a wheelchair donation program and commented on pickleball. The professionals of the Association were curious and were invited to play a game. The multi-disciplinary rehabilitation team noted the potential of this modality to help students and patients.

If used as therapy, pickleball improves balance, motor coordination and patient reflexes. Inserted in the school curriculum, the sport is fun to play and strengthens fellowship among students. Because it is still new in Brazil, Apraespi aims to encourage the emergence of athletes who compete professionally in the sport, including in Paralympic tournaments.

Pickleball combines elements of badminton, tennis and table tennis. Can be played individually or in pairs. Players use solid rackets made of wood or composite materials to hit perforated polymer ball over a net. The sport shares characteristics of other racket sports, the dimensions and layout of badminton court and rules similar to tennis. It was invented in the 1960s as a children's backyard pastime, but has become one of the most popular sports in the United States and Canada.

Tuesday, April 10, 2018

Papa's Thoughts: Brazil North Mission Experiences (3/27/18 through 4/7/18)

What follows is from email conversations between Papa and various members of the Brazil North Mission in preparation for their 50th reunion:

3/27/18
Just a quick observation that some Brazil North Mission Alumni may or not know.  It was Elder Spencer W. Kimball (as an Apostle) that pushed for opening the Brazil North Mission in mid-1968.  There was reluctance by some members of the Quorum of the Twelve at the time, as well much discussion. 

Of course, the Lord knew the time was right and Elder Kimball was His advocate for opening the mission.  

In my mind, it was no coincidence that President Kimball was also the Lord’s mouthpiece on June 1, 1978 for fulfilling assurances that many of us made in our seventh and final palestra (aka, the “Genealogy Lesson”). 

As Brazil North Mission Alumni, we are privileged to have witnessed in  an “up close and personal” way fulfillment of latter-day prophecy regarding the priesthood being extended to all worthy male members of the Church.  

Although I don’t publicly share the “Genealogy Lesson,” I continue to have a testimony of the scriptures and principles we taught in the lesson.

The bottom line of the Genealogy Lesson in my mind was (and still is):  “Achieving our full potential as sons and daughters of God is NOT a matter of black and white, but a matter of ‘dark or bright,’ based on principles we choose to live.”

I bear my witness of the truthfulness of the restored gospel.  

I’m still working on “day-to-day implementation” of the principles, but thanks my “Senior Companion” and best friend (my wife, Marilyn), progress is being made!

3/28/18
Our family lived in Brazil from 1976-1980 on an expatriate assignment with a large U.S. bank at the time.  We helped build concrete bricks used in the construction of the temple and were here for an area conference presided by President Kimball.  He visited again for the dedication of the temple.  

Marilyn and I both were both temple workers to accommodate the original rush of people from all over South America that came in droves to be endowed.  

The Brazil North Mission changed the course of my life and destiny of an entire continent, if not the world.  

When asked about the importance of Brazil to the Church in the news conference after the First Presidency was announced, his response was:  “Brazil is the seed bed of future leadership of the Church.”   

I guess the Prophet could say the same thing about the youth of all countries of the earth, but the Church in Brazil is on the move.  It’s influence for good in the country is dis-proportionate to its size. 

We never cease to be amazed at the changes in the Church and country now from the time I here in 1969-71 as a young missionary in the recently opened Brazil North Mission, and our family’s time here in 1976-80.  And the work goes on at an ever-quickening pace.  

One of the biggest contrasts that comes to my mind is Forteleza.  When I served there in late 1970, there were 10 members, 3 chickens and a Papa Gaio that attended meetings in the make-shift chapel in Dona Chaginha’s home.  Now there are 2 missions, 20 stakes and a temple nearing completion. 

I still have fond memories of crystal clear Nordeste nights, sleeping in a rede, listening to the sounds of Elder David Hymas and Elder Reed Nelson snoring, and Brad Shepherd playing Santa Claus at our branch Christmas Party.  

There are also other hazy recollections of improvised boogie boards on the perfectly-safe beach across from the Clube Náutica, where we played basketball on P-Days.  I’m sure those beach memories were purely heat-induced hallucinations easily dispelled by an “estupidamente bem-gelada” Guaraná Brama or Antarctica. We survived.  The work thrives.  The gospel changes countries, as well as lives. 

4/7/18
Thank you for clarifying the date of President Hinckley’s visit in 9/70. I thought it was in June or July because it was relatively cool in Brasilia. 

I was serving in Belo Horizonte at the time. The all-night bus ride to Brasilia was a memorable adventure.

I remember sitting next to Elder Richards and reading the book by Elder Eyring’s father entitled “Science & Mormonism.” The book is no longer in print, but it sure made an impression on my 20 year old mind.

What I remember most about the Q&A session of the conference was the question we all had, but only one Elder had the audacity to ask. I don’t remember the Elder that asked the question, but the answer was very powerful.

My paraphrased version of the exchange is presented below.

The essence of the question was:

“As an apostle, you are a special witness of Jesus Christ. Have you seen him in person?”

I remember the room becoming so quiet that you could have heard a pin drop.

After what seemed like minutes, but I’m sure was only a few seconds, Apostle Hinckley responded in a calm, quiet, but resolute voice:

“Elder, there are spiritual manifestations that are much more powerful than physical manifestations.”

Apostle Hinckley then proceeded to bear his witness that Jesus is the Christ, the head of His Church and the Savior of mankind.

As Apostle Hinckley spoke, I remembering receiving a “very real” personal “spiritual manifestation” that he referred to in his answer to the Elder’s question. That “manifestion” remains indelibly imprinted in every fiber of my being.

All good teachers use “visual aids” to illustrate their point, but Apostle Hinckley’s response was my first experience of someone using a “spiritual aid” to vividly illustrate a principle!

Wednesday, April 4, 2018

General Conference (4/2/18)

Hello to our wonderful family!

I wanted to share some of my feelings on conference!! I have never felt anything like what I felt the last 2 days. When you looked into President Nelson´s eyes, you could not only feel the spirit, his eyes radiated intense light. I KNOW he is a prophet called of God.

When Elder Bednar was here he said, “Fasten your seat belts, conference is going to be amazing”… that was an understatement!! None of us were prepared for the “whiplash” we received! Can´t wait to watch as the Lord´s work moves forward at an even faster pace than before… great time to be alive.

Now the challenge is to not forget what we all felt the last two days… remember to write down your feelings and read them often!! Look for ways you can serve and love others around you, just as Christ did. Many are hurting and just need someone to show them a little Christ like love. Make it a great week! 


Papa Comments:

I share Gma´s feelings regarding conference. I don´t ever recall a conference like this one. The bar has been raised, the Lord is “hastening His work.” We, as a covenant people, have been taught what we need to do to establish Zion in our homes, communities and, eventually, in the world.

I’ve always had the distinct impression that the millennium wouldn’t be ushered in solely because of cataclysmic events culminating in Christ´s second coming. I’ve always felt that it would be (at least in part) the result of good people of all faiths (throughout the earth) gathering together in places of safety and refuge to live principles of the terrestrial gospel.

As I listened to the Prophet, I too observed the light in his eyes. The Holy Ghost bore witness in my heart and mind of President Nelson´s divine calling, the truthfulness of his counsel, and the wisdom of the changes announced.

As I listened to President Nelson´s concluding comments in the Sunday afternoon session, the thought came to my mind that the suit, tie, hair, counsel and spirit would have been identical if the Savior was presiding. (Well, some of us may have needed to put on sunglasses, but you get what I mean.)

I add my witness to Gma´s that the gospel has been restored in its fulness and the Savior leads this great and marvelous latter-day work through His prophet Russell M. Nelson. How do Gma and I know this? The same way you do. The Holy Ghost confirmed it vividly to our hearts and minds in the spiritual outpouring we all experienced this last Saturday and Sunday.

One of President Nelson´s concluding comments that particularly penetrated my heart was: “Knowing where the seven new temples will be located does nothing for us. Being in the temple more often will.” Twice a month is our minimum goal. We hope you join us.

We love each and every one of you Handerdum Clan members more than words can express. You have blessed our lives eternally. We are grateful to be you parents, grandparents, friends, as well as your brother and sister in Christ.

We look forward to moving forward in faith (jointly with you) to “raise the bar, increase unity and turn up the light” of the gospel to implement the counsel received in General Conference last weekend. 


Love,

Grandma & Papa